The first session involves us meeting and for me an opportunity to understand what brings you to therapy. It is also an opportunity for you to get to know me and ask questions about the therapeutic process. One of the goals for the first session is to collaboratively establish the goals of therapy.
At each session we start wherever you are at. During therapy you can talk about whatever is on your mind. There’s no right way to do therapy. You may come with specific experiences and feelings you’d like to talk about or you might not. Both and everything in-between are okay and natural. The flow can and will change between sessions. I will support you in whatever is coming up for you as it comes up for you.
During our session I will listen and work with you. Sometimes this involves me speaking less. Other times I may ask you to explore and unpack some of what you’re sharing with me. There will also be times I’ll invite you to participate in an exercise such as breathing or process work. We will always work with what feels okay for you. Sessions are always structured on consent.
Counselling can raise feelings of uncomfortable. Uncomfortable is part of openness (vulnerability) and growth (change). Most people who take risks in therapy find it useful. You may gain a better understanding of yourself and your values and beliefs and may overcome a specific problem you came to therapy for.
And, it’s natural to have feelings about sessions, I encourage and will invite us to talk about session dynamics too.